OPSEC Violated yet again!!

So I see my friend Christina Rush always writing on this issue and normally I tend to agree with her about it because although I am not a navy wife/gf. I am shocked that women whose S.O. is deployed do silly shit like countdowns and in a way let the whole world know the location of a damn ship or whatever.  Now first as a believer that somethings are meant for public and some are not I am guilty of PERSEC. I was not aware of everything you can tell by looking at a uniform but thanx to Mrs. Rush I know what to black out and what to watch for. But I do have friends that are marines and in the navy and I hardly post about where these men and women are when they are doing training or deployed.

There is a saying loose lips sink ships.  What do you not think that the enemy is not looking the information you are uttering on your damn twitter or facebook status. Yes sadly this is a world where people do look for shit like this but I do believe that this stuff is meant to be kept for  your S.O. and you. Plz refrain from puttin when you get emails and blah blah blah. I am sad to say but only you and your S.O. need to know when a ships movement is happening. I know your thinking why does she care because although as I said I have no affliation with the Navy at all I do care if my friends and thier husbands come home safe. And as for myself I have affliation with Marines so therefore I care if my friends make it  home safe. So just keep that stuff to yourself. If anyone has any comments bring it cause I count down to when I get to go on vacation to see my friends. Thnx

The Meaning Of the word MOM

Lately I have been battling with myself about motherhood. Well anyone who knows the situation knows I didn't have 9 months to study to be a mom. These kids were thrown into my life with thier clothes on thier back. What makes a person a mom? I've always had my mom in my life and even in times when I needed her the most she was there but did not provide me with somethings emotionally. So as I am a mother to two young kids I ponder the meaning cause I know what they came out of and what they need. Any woman can give birth to a child but giving them love and support no matter how fucked up they are is what makes a mom to me. I do not think having kids and making them your meal ticket is the way to go... I don't think that it's my calling but I know I love my kiddos even if they do some crazy shit and push my buttons. Even if you buy them the biggest toy in the world it will not make you mother of the year if you abuse them. I think even when my kids act like they've lost it i love them and its worth it all in the end